Netizen Persoal Tindakan Pergi Bercuti Di Bali Bersama Rakan, Ini Jawapan Vivy Yusof!

Setiap orang pastinya perlukan masa untuk diri sendiri untuk melepaskan tekanan atau bersantai untuk menenangkan diri. Begitu juga dengan wanita yang bergelar sebagai ‘ibu’. Tambah-tambah lagi jika ada kerjaya.

Perkara sama berlaku pada Vivy Yusof. Baru-baru ini dia telah pergi bercuti dengan kawan-kawan di Bali dan meninggalkan suami dan anak-anak di rumah.

 

 

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The Marissa Squad. ❤️ #getreadyformorepicsguys #ihave432moretogo 😅

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Perkara itu telah menimbulkan banyak komen dari netizen yang mengatakan bahawa dia tidak patut meninggalkan suami dan anak-anak di rumah semata untuk meluangkan masa bersama teman-teman.

Justeru, Vivy menjelaskan bahawa perkara itu tidak harus dijadikan isu kerana dia sentiasa mengingati anak-anak dan suami di rumah dan selalu menelefon untuk bertanya khabar mereka.

“Sejujurnya saya tidak merasa ia satu kesalahan pun seorang ibu meluangkan masa untuk diri sendiri.Malah, saya fikir ia adalah satu perkara yang menyihatkan kerana kita hidup dalam zaman yang mencabar.”

“Malah sepanjang saya berada di Bali, saya tidak henti-henti menelefon mereka untuk bertanyakan khabar dan begitu juga dengan mereka.”

“Setiap kali keluar juga saya tidak akan lupa untuk membeli barang-barang untuk mereka. Rasanya ini ialah sesuatu yang ibu-ibu pasti akan lakukan.”

Dan bila pulang, pastinya saya amat merindui mereka dan akan berkongsi banyak cerita dengan mereka.’

 

 

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During this Bali trip I got a few DMs from followers asking me how I could leave my kids and have fun and what kind of a mother I am etc etc. I wasn’t annoyed with that, because honestly my mom says the same thing 😅 And I get it, because in her generation this is unheard of. But I thought I’d share this in case you deal with mom guilt and your friends don’t invite you out anymore 😜 Truth is, I personally don’t see anything wrong with a mom enjoying her other times – husband/wife only time, girlfriends time, her work time, her alone time. In fact, I think it’s pretty healthy especially in this stressful fast-paced environment we live in now, we need to destress. As long as it’s not excessive, your husband is cool with it and your kids are well taken care of, it doesn’t make you a bad mom if you’re not with them 24/7. During the trip, we videocalled constantly and when out, I’m just buying stuff that I think they’d like. I think this is the same for every mom – a mom will still be a mom wherever she is! I came back from this trip missing them so much and vice versa, that we had an awesome day together cuddling non stop and sharing stories of what we did this weekend. You may not agree with me but that’s totally fine too, because motherhood is something very sensitive and personal to every mom. We shouldn’t judge one another because it’s hard enough raising kids but even worse to be judged for it by other moms. All of us are trying our best! So you do you, girlfriend, and I’ll be supporting you however you decide to raise your kids! Just have to manage your own mom, good luck with that… 😅 #motherhood

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Ok I think I’m a hat girl now. 🤠 #addsheight 😂 (Wearing the new Frappe dUCk launching soon @theduckgroup)

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